I have thought about where I would like to take this blog next. I still very much want to keep it about my life and the challenges, experiences, wrong turns, right turns, mistakes, and good choices that make me who I am. But I want to keep people interested in reading and hope to gather some new readers. I'm not promising this new idea is going to work but I'm going to give it a shot.
Monday Musings- I will gather my random thoughts for the day, the good, the bad and the ugly. If I have pictures of whatever I will most certainly try and post them.
Tuesday's Thoughts from a Teacher- Since my current occupation sees me as a teacher I find it important to keep learning myself, therefore I will try and learn something new by way of research and share it with you. I may also find tips from fellow teachers. I guess whatever tickles my fancy.
Whacked out Wednesday- Anything crazy, bizarre, annoying, etc that will allow me to scream out my feelings of how common sense is very much lacking in this world.
Fashionable Friday- I'm trying to call back to my days of being a fashionista in highschool, then I got fat, and then I lost weight and am afraid to take risks on clothes, mainly because I'm not afraid to gain weight and not fit in those clothes again. I will try a new trend or fad and share if it was a success or fail. I will also showcase some outfits I have or I want to have.
Weekend recaps- I doubt I will post on the weekends as that seems to be the time I am most busy. I will try my best to try and recap the weekend on Sunday nights, but most likely this will not be a topic and I will post anything important on Monday Musings.
That is all for now lovelies! Enjoy your Tuesday night!
Peace&Love
~L
Tuesday, July 31, 2012
Sunday, July 29, 2012
#30 and Some other ramblings
I started this test months ago and finally here we are at the last question. I started this initially as something new to share and post and it became a learning experience about myself. There were some questions (like this last one) that left me thinking and searching. Everytime I thought 'ok I have nothing to do at the moment let me quickly post something on my blog' and then I get stuck with a tough question and I'd wait and wait. I'm not sure I've come out on the other side of this as a better person or have a deeper connection with myself, but I hope I've begun to start digging into myself.
So here it is, the final question: What 10 things do you HOPE to be remembered for?
First of all, notice my caps of hope. This is not what I want to necessarily be remembered for, but what I'm hoping for. Also I hate thinking about laying on my deathbed reflecting on my life and wondering what people thought of me and what kind of impact I left on this earth.
1. My sarcasm- I tend to be blunt and to the point. If you don't like it, get out of my way. It's sort of my second language. In recent years, it's gotten worse and people are beginning to talk...
2. My work with children- I hope that the kids I've worked with over the years remember me as being an awesome teacher/nanny/babysitter/mentor/whatever it is that I was to them. I also hope parents see the impact I'm making on their childrens lives.
3. Volunteer work- Now I haven't done a lot of this, but I'm hoping to start doing more of this. I feel it betters you as a person when giving back to others, whether they need it or not. The feeling is even greater when you are getting nothing in return for it. It's out of your own time. I want to be able to help lots of people and change lots of lives.
4. Being a good friend- I hope that I've been the best friend I could to all of my friends. I hope they have seen I'm always there and try to be a good listener and advice giver or just that shoulder to cry on.
5. Good wife- Even though I'm not married, nor anywhere near this yet, I hope that at the end of this journey called life, my husband would look at me and say you were the best thing that ever happened to me and you have changed me for the better.
6. Potentially a good parent- I'm still not sure if I want to bring children into this world or not. I do and I don't, but if that time should come, I hope that I can see my children were raised well and they succeed and achieve all of their dreams.
7. I hope people find that I stood for something. I'm not sure what that could be, but I hope I use my voice and not sit back in the corner.
And that folks is all I have for you. I'm befuddled. I can't wrangle up 3 more things, because I think they can be added as I get older and have done more.
Peace&Love
~L
So here it is, the final question: What 10 things do you HOPE to be remembered for?
First of all, notice my caps of hope. This is not what I want to necessarily be remembered for, but what I'm hoping for. Also I hate thinking about laying on my deathbed reflecting on my life and wondering what people thought of me and what kind of impact I left on this earth.
1. My sarcasm- I tend to be blunt and to the point. If you don't like it, get out of my way. It's sort of my second language. In recent years, it's gotten worse and people are beginning to talk...
2. My work with children- I hope that the kids I've worked with over the years remember me as being an awesome teacher/nanny/babysitter/mentor/whatever it is that I was to them. I also hope parents see the impact I'm making on their childrens lives.
3. Volunteer work- Now I haven't done a lot of this, but I'm hoping to start doing more of this. I feel it betters you as a person when giving back to others, whether they need it or not. The feeling is even greater when you are getting nothing in return for it. It's out of your own time. I want to be able to help lots of people and change lots of lives.
4. Being a good friend- I hope that I've been the best friend I could to all of my friends. I hope they have seen I'm always there and try to be a good listener and advice giver or just that shoulder to cry on.
5. Good wife- Even though I'm not married, nor anywhere near this yet, I hope that at the end of this journey called life, my husband would look at me and say you were the best thing that ever happened to me and you have changed me for the better.
6. Potentially a good parent- I'm still not sure if I want to bring children into this world or not. I do and I don't, but if that time should come, I hope that I can see my children were raised well and they succeed and achieve all of their dreams.
7. I hope people find that I stood for something. I'm not sure what that could be, but I hope I use my voice and not sit back in the corner.
And that folks is all I have for you. I'm befuddled. I can't wrangle up 3 more things, because I think they can be added as I get older and have done more.
Peace&Love
~L
Sunday, July 22, 2012
#29 Most Misunderstood
Ok folks here it is the 2nd to last post for this topic...finally. #29 asks the question what is the most misunderstood thing about you?
I would have to say many people mistake my shyness for being antisocial. I have to say as a younger child I was your typical kid, shy around strangers but comfortable around people I knew. As I got older I became more open and less shy and stayed that way until I graduated highschool. When I got to college I was pretty shy at first, but then eventually stuck to my group of newly acquired friends. Then I left one college to go to another for 1 year and realized how comfortable I had become and how shy I was all of a sudden. After basically adjusting to life at this school I transferred again, basically given the chance to start over. I had to options either stay the quiet girl who was comfortable the way things were, or become more open and eager to meet others, needless to say my shyness won and I wish I could go back to that first night in Myrtle Beach, but that would have changed me and who knows where I'd be right now?! I'm pretty happy with where I am. Unfortunately because I seem shy at first, most people are turned off and assume that I'm awkward or antisocial, and that is simply not the case. I'm just taking in my surroundings and getting to know you as a person. Once I'm comfortable around a person, I'm fully capable of talking to them easily. Anyways, if we ever happen to stumble upon each other at some point in the future and I seem shy, don't let that scare you, come and sit down and get to know me.
Peace&Love
~L
I would have to say many people mistake my shyness for being antisocial. I have to say as a younger child I was your typical kid, shy around strangers but comfortable around people I knew. As I got older I became more open and less shy and stayed that way until I graduated highschool. When I got to college I was pretty shy at first, but then eventually stuck to my group of newly acquired friends. Then I left one college to go to another for 1 year and realized how comfortable I had become and how shy I was all of a sudden. After basically adjusting to life at this school I transferred again, basically given the chance to start over. I had to options either stay the quiet girl who was comfortable the way things were, or become more open and eager to meet others, needless to say my shyness won and I wish I could go back to that first night in Myrtle Beach, but that would have changed me and who knows where I'd be right now?! I'm pretty happy with where I am. Unfortunately because I seem shy at first, most people are turned off and assume that I'm awkward or antisocial, and that is simply not the case. I'm just taking in my surroundings and getting to know you as a person. Once I'm comfortable around a person, I'm fully capable of talking to them easily. Anyways, if we ever happen to stumble upon each other at some point in the future and I seem shy, don't let that scare you, come and sit down and get to know me.
Peace&Love
~L
Thursday, July 19, 2012
#28- Love Language
I have heard of the love languages before, but I had to do a little research to know exactly what it was. There are 5 categories: Words of Affirmation, quality time, receiving gifts, acts of service and physical touch. These are all rather self explanatory so I'm not going to tell you what each means. I found a test online that could pinpoint for me where my love language lies. I knew for sure it wasn't going to be receiving gifts or acts of service. I scored highest in quality time. I want to spend quality time with those that I love and want the same in return. I want to be focused on the other person without distractions. I figure that is fairly accurate for me. If you want to take the test here is the website: http://www.5lovelanguages.com/assessments/love/
Peace&Love
~L
Peace&Love
~L
Wednesday, July 18, 2012
#27
Well folks we are coming down to the final questions. It took forever getting here, but hey, I have a life you know. After I complete this 30 question thing I want to start having more of a focus of days like Monday Musings, Fashionable Friday, etc.
So #27- What is your favorite body part and why?
This is hard because for the most part I love my whole body. I've worked hard for the body I have. I fault myself every now and then, but I know I'm not perfect. I don't have visible washboard abs, but I know they are there. I've got cellulite on my thighs, but I realize thats a sign of getting older. I have scars and bumps and bruises but I feel each of those things have a story to tell. I'm not always a fan of my eyes because I've been told they are big, but that makes me unique. I have to say if I had to pick one body part I like it would either be my feet or hands. I think I have perfect feet and hands. I also feel that my feet and hands have done the most work for me. They are signs of a body well used. But they always look good, without me having to do much.
Peace&Love
~L
So #27- What is your favorite body part and why?
This is hard because for the most part I love my whole body. I've worked hard for the body I have. I fault myself every now and then, but I know I'm not perfect. I don't have visible washboard abs, but I know they are there. I've got cellulite on my thighs, but I realize thats a sign of getting older. I have scars and bumps and bruises but I feel each of those things have a story to tell. I'm not always a fan of my eyes because I've been told they are big, but that makes me unique. I have to say if I had to pick one body part I like it would either be my feet or hands. I think I have perfect feet and hands. I also feel that my feet and hands have done the most work for me. They are signs of a body well used. But they always look good, without me having to do much.
Peace&Love
~L
Sunday, July 15, 2012
What to do on a Sunday and #26
Let me start with #26 What popular notion does the world have wrong?
Let me preface this by saying this is not meant to be a controversial post or meant to offend anyone it is simply what I believe.
I think the notion we have wrong is the general topic of homosexuality.
I grew up in a Lutheran home believing that homosexuals were disgusting people and were out there for the rest of the world to mock them for their behavior. I believe firmly, even now, that God established marriage to be one man and one woman. As I got older, the idea of homosexuality wasn't so hush hush. I've met and became friends with lesbians and gays. By meeting and becoming friends with these people I've realized they are people too and have feelings just like me. Even though I don't support what they choose to do in living the lifestyle they choose, I support them as a friend and person. People think we are born with something that makes a person homosexual and that its not a choice. But just like someone who is a thief or a liar or murderer, we aren't born with a chip in us that says oh you are a murderer. No, it's a choice that we make. We all have a free will and can make any choice we choose. And yes I believe that homosexuality is a sin as it says in the Bible, but I believe all of the things I listed are also sins, but I'm not the one to judge.
On to other things, what do I do with a lazy Sunday? Typically I'm with my boyfriend doing stuff but he had to work all weekend so I haven't seen him much. :( Now normally we would have breakfast and probably headed downtown to find something to do. Today it is all on me. I'm thinking of hitting the beach. Get a little outdoor time and of course a tan. I've got quite the nice swimsuit tan line going on. Oh Sunday, what will you bring? Here's to a little adventure!!
Peace&Love
~L
Let me preface this by saying this is not meant to be a controversial post or meant to offend anyone it is simply what I believe.
I think the notion we have wrong is the general topic of homosexuality.
I grew up in a Lutheran home believing that homosexuals were disgusting people and were out there for the rest of the world to mock them for their behavior. I believe firmly, even now, that God established marriage to be one man and one woman. As I got older, the idea of homosexuality wasn't so hush hush. I've met and became friends with lesbians and gays. By meeting and becoming friends with these people I've realized they are people too and have feelings just like me. Even though I don't support what they choose to do in living the lifestyle they choose, I support them as a friend and person. People think we are born with something that makes a person homosexual and that its not a choice. But just like someone who is a thief or a liar or murderer, we aren't born with a chip in us that says oh you are a murderer. No, it's a choice that we make. We all have a free will and can make any choice we choose. And yes I believe that homosexuality is a sin as it says in the Bible, but I believe all of the things I listed are also sins, but I'm not the one to judge.
On to other things, what do I do with a lazy Sunday? Typically I'm with my boyfriend doing stuff but he had to work all weekend so I haven't seen him much. :( Now normally we would have breakfast and probably headed downtown to find something to do. Today it is all on me. I'm thinking of hitting the beach. Get a little outdoor time and of course a tan. I've got quite the nice swimsuit tan line going on. Oh Sunday, what will you bring? Here's to a little adventure!!
Peace&Love
~L
Saturday, July 14, 2012
Time for a Change and #25
I thought it was time to clean up my blog. I had different types of fonts going on and it was too dark for me. I wanted a change. I figured things have changed in my life, but in a good way. I'm lucky to have a job, even though I hate it at times. I have a wonderful boyfriend who I wouldn't trade for anything in the world. My family isn't whole, but I think for whatever reason, my parents had to separate to find their own happiness. I'm moving on to bigger and better things and I want my blog to follow suit. My only problem is that I am trying to figure out how to make my background white or lighter instead of grey. If someone can help me out with that, that would be great. I've been doing all sorts of things but can't seem to figure it out. I'm clearly not blog savvy. I would also like to be able to put a few pictures at the top of my blog. How do I go about doing that?? I'm sure this is all relatively easy, but as stated a few sentences ago I'm not blog savvy.
#25- Dinner with anyone in history and what would you eat.
Ok the eating part is easy the person isn't so much. There's a lot of people I would love to have dinner with. Let me start with the food. We would have steak and potatoes and lobster. (surf'n'turf) Of course we would have a good wine to compliment both. The person I would like to have dinner with would be Jackie Kennedy. She exemplifies style and beauty. I think she was a strong women in a time of great sadness.
Peace&Love
~L
#25- Dinner with anyone in history and what would you eat.
Ok the eating part is easy the person isn't so much. There's a lot of people I would love to have dinner with. Let me start with the food. We would have steak and potatoes and lobster. (surf'n'turf) Of course we would have a good wine to compliment both. The person I would like to have dinner with would be Jackie Kennedy. She exemplifies style and beauty. I think she was a strong women in a time of great sadness.
Peace&Love
~L
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